The Green Eyed Monster

After having such a good weekend with Kayla and the amazing time at prom, I was hoping that nothing would ruin that. But, something crept up that put a little damper on things. Mostly, I don't really get jealous when other girls talk to Kayla. We've been dating for two and a half years and we know that nothing is going to break us up. I know that she wouldn't leave me for anyone else. Because how could she do better than me? (; But there's bound to be jealousy in a relationship. How could there not be? But now could there not be? And that's okay! It's healthy to have a little bit of jealousy.

Don't worry about other people// JUST because your significant other is talking to someone else does not mean they like the other person or the other person likes them. I have a problem with this all the time. I just always think that EVERYONE likes Kayla. But it's not necessarily true! People can be JUST friends. Always keep that in mind!

Communicate// If you're having a problem with your significant other, it's always best to communicate. If you're jealous about/of something they're doing TELL THEM. They can't fix it or explain if they don't know it's bothering you. Make sure they know that you don't appreciate what they're doing.

Accept that they wont' change// If they don't want to stop being friends with their ex or that girl is higher on his/her snap chat best friends than you and she won't stop snapchatting, then that's okay. At the end of the day you are not the boss of them. You never will be. You can only simply make suggestions and hope that you learn '

Sometimes it's you// I know this is hard to hear. It's something that I have a hard time accepting and realizing. Sometimes whatever you're upset about isn't really that big of a deal and YOU'RE the one that has to change or fix something and get over it. It's really hard to do but sometimes it's necessary.

Sometimes jealousy is necessary in a relationship. If you're not jealous a little bit when someone new talks to your significant other then I feel like you really don't care. If you say you don't care when you realize that another girl is before you on their snap chat best friends then you're probably lying. It's good and it's healthy to be jealous. It shows that you care about the other person. As well as, it's healthy to fight also. Fighting is okay. Don't let anyone tell you different.

What do you have a hard time getting over?

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