tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post6703514499332283778..comments2023-09-21T07:16:58.551-04:00Comments on Design Ally: DisappointmentAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-57973497574149912242015-08-17T10:35:28.797-04:002015-08-17T10:35:28.797-04:00We've all experienced disappoint some time or ...We've all experienced disappoint some time or another. I know I have many times, but usually something better always came around. Hold your head up, I promise something better will turn up :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16974653590688797183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-84167861787280769612015-08-13T22:19:15.438-04:002015-08-13T22:19:15.438-04:00Honestly girlfriend, I'm an RA, and I'm go...Honestly girlfriend, I'm an RA, and I'm gonna give you some flipsides to hopefully help you feel better.<br />1.) You won't get woken up in the middle of the night to freshmen drunkenly slamming doors.<br />2.) You won't have to deal with drunk people, period (in a disciplinary way).<br />3.) Your time is YOURS and you can invest in yourself with all of that energy you were goiung to invest in others. Or invest in friends, family...the works. It's not lost!<br />Disappointment sucks, I know. So just keep focusing on your great traits and let yourself sulk briefly, but then push yourself past it and onto the next big thing for you. <3<br /><br /><a href="http://cominguprosestheblog.com" rel="nofollow">Coming Up Roses</a>ericaligenzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08313758786680500536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-51140886497529252732015-08-13T20:17:09.240-04:002015-08-13T20:17:09.240-04:00This is a wonderful piece! I'm terrible at han...This is a wonderful piece! I'm terrible at handling with disappointment, I just close up and get really well - angry. Maybe I don't feel disappointment just anger - wait that might be worse. I'm so sorry that you didn't get the RA position, but don't even worry about it! You are a smart, talented, and amazing woman - good things will come! :)Steph Jenssenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01289699436262686165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-25435934133257570562015-08-13T18:49:48.400-04:002015-08-13T18:49:48.400-04:00It definitely is hard, but like you said I'm t...It definitely is hard, but like you said I'm trying to refocus myself! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-87399857701337017752015-08-13T18:49:31.543-04:002015-08-13T18:49:31.543-04:00I definitely hope so! Thanks for the support, girl...I definitely hope so! Thanks for the support, girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-25575885314669455612015-08-13T18:49:12.197-04:002015-08-13T18:49:12.197-04:00Thanks for your support girl!Thanks for your support girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-78867774700156762782015-08-13T18:48:38.576-04:002015-08-13T18:48:38.576-04:00I'm glad I'm not alone! Things definitely ...I'm glad I'm not alone! Things definitely do happen for a reason! I'm glad you're getting more opportunities! Good luck girl! Thanks for the support! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-20004226026509631472015-08-13T18:46:06.663-04:002015-08-13T18:46:06.663-04:00I'm definitely going to try to get in other cl...I'm definitely going to try to get in other clubs! I'm trying to stay positive and keep trucking! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-72686083080684980092015-08-13T18:45:13.593-04:002015-08-13T18:45:13.593-04:00Like you said, just keep your head high! We'll...Like you said, just keep your head high! We'll both be okay! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-69478422703919510542015-08-13T18:44:07.818-04:002015-08-13T18:44:07.818-04:00It's oaky! I'm just going to let it go and...It's oaky! I'm just going to let it go and see what other things I can get myself into! Glad you're moving on also!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-54271991438068055212015-08-13T18:41:27.790-04:002015-08-13T18:41:27.790-04:00I'm sorry that happened to you! I'm glad t...I'm sorry that happened to you! I'm glad that you're going to try again! I really hope you get it! I'll be rooting for you! Let me know! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-65822118224244915622015-08-13T18:40:41.712-04:002015-08-13T18:40:41.712-04:00They really are! Thanks for the support girl!They really are! Thanks for the support girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-88341415242075903592015-08-13T18:38:48.226-04:002015-08-13T18:38:48.226-04:00That's definitely true!That's definitely true! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-40067130001481179242015-08-13T18:38:28.445-04:002015-08-13T18:38:28.445-04:00Yeah, getting excited is the worst part! I was so ...Yeah, getting excited is the worst part! I was so excited but I was just let down. But that's okay! I'm going to keep trying! Thanks so much girl! It means so much to have support! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-84460303486385577352015-08-13T18:35:35.906-04:002015-08-13T18:35:35.906-04:00I'm sorry to hear that! A lot of people apply ...I'm sorry to hear that! A lot of people apply so I'm sure there's really tough competition! I'm glad you're doing well still and are taking on the challenges of new opportunities! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-91409857445319790932015-08-13T18:33:52.534-04:002015-08-13T18:33:52.534-04:00I try to stay real with my readers! I don't wa...I try to stay real with my readers! I don't want to be that blogger that only posts the happy things that happen to me! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-10231104780183178352015-08-13T18:32:56.594-04:002015-08-13T18:32:56.594-04:00It really is terrible! But I'm trying to move ...It really is terrible! But I'm trying to move on! Here's to new opportunities!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-54984481440158950292015-08-13T18:32:23.925-04:002015-08-13T18:32:23.925-04:00That's what I'm hoping for! I've heard...That's what I'm hoping for! I've heard a lot of RAs get fired after the first few weeks because of partying too much, lol! Hopefully I still have a chance. Thanks so much!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351421724687170015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-11085335911156962542015-08-13T15:06:19.102-04:002015-08-13T15:06:19.102-04:00It's so hard to get over disappointment, espec...It's so hard to get over disappointment, especially when it's something you were excited about. I usually try to take it easy for a few days then find something new to get excited about.ELGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05891332568487032508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-43020223630031169412015-08-13T13:03:10.052-04:002015-08-13T13:03:10.052-04:00I am so sorry. :( The best thing I can say during ...I am so sorry. :( The best thing I can say during times like these is that everything happens for a reason and there's something SO much better coming your way! <br /><br />Lauren<br /><a href="http://www.thefashionistasdiary.com/" rel="nofollow">The Fashionista's Diary</a><br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11468231292247161254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-84148561927612275672015-08-13T12:38:13.304-04:002015-08-13T12:38:13.304-04:00I'm so sorry to hear... I can totally understa...I'm so sorry to hear... I can totally understand what you are going through... Don't worry and keep your head up!!Jasmine Wattshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02560114029237659716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-91647370823955297212015-08-13T11:34:17.168-04:002015-08-13T11:34:17.168-04:00Sorry for your disappointment! Like many of your f...Sorry for your disappointment! Like many of your followers, I can also relate. We have all went through some type of application/interview process on campus that didn't work out like we hoped. After my brief melt down, I always told myself that things happen for a reason and that wasn't the role that I needed to take. Luckily for me...others opportunities came into to play that was more beneficial for me. Maybe not a relief of a financial burden but job/intern opportunities that were related to my field of study. Get involved more on campus because sometimes through it all it comes down to who you know. Gook Luck and keep your head up!!! <br /><br />xoxo Dani<br />www.glamrme.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-92151390119614877452015-08-12T23:59:39.981-04:002015-08-12T23:59:39.981-04:00I can totally understand what you are going throug...I can totally understand what you are going through. Not getting something after an interview is the worst because the whole time you just keep blaming yourself like you mentioned. The only thing I always tell myself is that I tried my best and it clearly wasn't a better fit. But just think of all the amazing opportuninities you now have ahead of you. You can join a different club and meet a ton of new people. I know it sucks not getting the RA position especially since I know how close that community is, but I promise you will find your niche. Look into joining some other clubs and get involved!! Good luck chica :)<br /><br />Annie // <a href="http://www.annienbelle.blogpost.com" rel="nofollow">Annie N Belle</a>Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01013820040347138152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-18376309243309884232015-08-12T20:29:57.178-04:002015-08-12T20:29:57.178-04:00I can completely relate to all of this. I am in th...I can completely relate to all of this. I am in the same moment in my life right now. Just trying to sort through everything while keeping my head high. <br /><br />Nicole // Chronicles of HomeNicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00211852788732420339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4579884788148632046.post-22233905192020443982015-08-12T19:23:52.676-04:002015-08-12T19:23:52.676-04:00Aww, I am sorry that you didn't get the positi...Aww, I am sorry that you didn't get the position. I've gone into interviews before thinking I nailed it too but the interviewer apparently didn't have the same opinion. Just keep your head up because there are so many other great opportunities coming your way!<br /><br />xoxo, Jenny || <a href="http://www.breakfastatlillys.com" rel="nofollow">Breakfast at Lillys </a>Breakfast at Lillyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16925645673720403795noreply@blogger.com